I have decided to begin creating a “Love List”. Its something that I have been reading about lately that I think would help our country and the World to make it better in the new age. We need to begin to start feeling the right feelings if we ever expect to get better results from our thoughts and actions. Its not just what we think about but also how we feel when we think the thoughts we want to create. My motto has been for the last few years “Thoughts Become Things” but I have been catching myself not adding the right feelings to those thoughts. If we think amazing thoughts but lack the amazing feelings that should go along with those thoughts we are actually telling the Universe the opposite of what we really want. Thoughts are the first step and feelings are the next step. After that step comes the result, receiving. If we think the right thoughts and feel the wrong feelings we are attracting those bad feelings along side the thoughts we want to create. Then we are working against ourselves. We start to think the awesome thoughts of what we want but then stick the resentment or worry of not getting fulfillment from those thoughts and then it begins to work against us in the worst way. That bad pit in your stomach you feel when you really want something because you begin to imagine what would happen if it doesn’t come to fruition is how the Universe will read your message.
So lets begin by writing a list of what we love or who we love. Even writing what we want to happen to those that we love. You don’t have to only write about yourself. If you write about what joy it would be to see or hear your friend or loved one get that promotion or get a new car or whatever, you are still sending out a great feeling of joy and happiness. You are giving those feelings to the Universe and you will receive those feelings back to you and more! If you express yourself to that person about how awesome it would be if they got that promotion or that new car they really wanted, those same people that will receive that good news will only be able to thank you for your support along the way. That message is now being sent to the Universe by not just one person but by two, you and your friend or loved one. Do you see how much more powerful these feelings can be? Even if they do not receive those things they can only still thank you for your support during that process.
You can even do this for those that you may not particularly feel comfortable to support or be around. But like the quote says, “Love conquers all”. Even if you have had bad blood with this person or they have seemed to not make your life any easier, you can still find ways of gratitude for them. Usually the recommendation is to just walk away from these type of people. Leave them alone to suffer their own pain from the pain they force onto others but in some cases you might have to stay connected to these people. Whether they are siblings or other family members or they could be ex-spouses that you need to stay in contact with due to having children with them. This last example runs very close to home. I have an ex-wife that has not made things easy on me. I have fallen into the trap that I always wanted to avoid but with me not using the law of attraction to my advantage I have helped create a bad situation. I won’t go into details but my resentment for the things she has done has created reactions from me that I wish I could have done differently. I have allowed a lot of poor decisions to be made. I concentrated on the bad instead of a solution. So to show you that I practice what I preach, moments before typing this blog entry I emailed my ex with a note of gratitude. I have looked past the pain of the last couple years and I want to make a change. I found things that I can be grateful for in her. I told her and felt the correct feelings while telling her these things. We can not be prisoners of our pasts any longer. Even if she may not want to accept what I wrote due to her still wanting to be upset or hateful for whatever she still wants to hold on to, its now out there for her and the Universe to read. You can not change the way someone else feels about a situation until you accept the way you have felt about it and then move on towards a positive resolution. The first step is to show appreciation. And feel appreciation. This was my first step.
I will be creating a “Love List” on a big poster board tonight. When I am done, whether it be tonight or tomorrow, I will post it to show you my example. I hope you follow suit. Only good things can come from it. But make sure you are feeling the right feelings while creating your list. That is the key, feeling Love.
- Gratitude (theuniverseandemma.wordpress.com)
- A Year of Learning and Gratitude (diggingintwo.blogspot.com)
- Spread Love (ejaife.wordpress.com)
- All about Happiness Weekly and what’s ahead (happinessweekly.org)
- Let’s talk about LOVE 🙂 (otakutegoshei.wordpress.com)
- Day 8: The Body~ Mind Connection (jacquelinecassel.com)